Age is just a number. Boudoir shoots are for women at any age!


The desire to be sexy comes with no age limits. I’ve had quite a few clients book a boudoir shoot at Demi Girl’s studio over the last year who were over the age of 45. These women wanted the experience of getting in front of the camera for a boudoir shoot just the same as any young bride.

When curiosity sets in, many women might think, “I could never do that” or “I’m not sexy enough.” No matter where you’re at in your life, you may harbor these thoughts… but, you really do want a day that is all about glamming you up and making you feel truly beautiful just the way you are. You so badly want to feel sexy “enough” and you might be unsure if this is something you can “pull off”. I’ve heard these these words uttered from past clients, so I’m sure it may not be far from what you’re thinking yourself. Please allow me to debunk this thought! There’s no qualification or age to whether or not a woman is sexy enough for a boudoir shoot.

I’m here to tell you every woman can find her sexy and that is what our Chicago Lakeview/Lincoln park studio is all about.


We cater to our client for the day and focus on making her feel like a beautiful bombshell while highlighting and posing her in the most beautiful light. Here’s a little secret for you, most of my clients don’t come to me bc they think they are the cats meow and are ready to strut their stuff. Our clients book their shoot with us because we make the shoot very comfortable and down to earth while literally guiding her through every single pose from head to toe. Theres not one piece of a pose that goes missed during a Demi Girl photography session and our clients are not expected to know a thing about posing!

Here’s some great reasons for women over 45 to book a boudoir shoot:

You’ve raised beautiful children and its time to do something AMAZING for yourself
You’ve survived a difficult divorce 
You’ve achieved great successes
You’d lost 10, 20, or 100 pounds! Go girl! Let’s CELEBRATE!
You’ve lost a spouse
You beat cancer 
You’re an empty nester and it’s time to experience something special for you because you’ve been busy taking care of everyone else your entire life.
You’ve gone through menopause and are ready for this next chapter. This isn’t the end of the road. It’s a new beginning.


You might think, “my body is not what it used to be so what’s the point.” Yes, maybe it’s not what it used to be but it’s still beautiful- we are celebrating the life this body carried you through and celebrate all the things you’ve gone through and what you’ve be able to achieve with this body in this life. A boudoir photoshoot is not about perfection. Its about celebrating you in the here and now and the result is taking self-love and appreciation for yourself to a new level. A lingerie guide is sent and with our expertise in posing, lighting, and editing, the results are fool proof for any woman at any age or size.

The feeling sexy part comes after the boudoir experience. It comes after you leave the studio feeling so empowered and emboldened by doing something that you never thought you could do. Its about pushing through the nerves and any limitations you’ve set and helping yourself become open to a whole new journey of self acceptance.

When I read my client reviews so many mention how the felt after they left the shoot. They are literally on cloud nine and those hearfelt feelings never leave my clients. The photos are a beautiful reminder of a day my clients decide that she is undeniably worthy of feeling beautiful, desired and simply good enough…. If you want to learn more about booking a boudoir session with Demi Girl, Please request a phone consult HERE.

Read a questionsaire from my last client, Mrs. D, to get her perspecitve!

What Inspired you to book a boudoir photoshoot? My age I just turned 49

What made you choose Demi Girl for your boudoir photos? The photos and the poses with the women are amazing they looked like a lingerie magazine photo spread.

What did you like best about your boudoir experience with Demi Girl? Super fun! Hair and makeup were done at the studio. I didn't have to worry about what I was going to wear or what goes well together. I am no supermodel and I did not have to worry about posing or anything. All I had to do was show up with some garments and the rest is taken care of by Adrienne.

Did you have fun or were you super nervous? Because I had never done anything ever like this before I was nervous until I walked in. Then Makeup and hair started and that helped me feel more relaxed! it was so fun and time flew by. It was over before I knew it. This was a great experience!

Did this experience help give you a more positive perception of the way you see yourself? It sure does! if you've never seen yourself look like the photos, it is hard to imagine yourself that way. My husband too.  Now he has a different perception of me (SEXY). No one wakes up looking like a super model.  Not even models. They get their hair and makeup done, and their outfits picked out, directed on how to sit, stand or lay. You don't have to be a super model to have unbelievably great, sexy and fabulous photos of yourself. You just need Demi Girl Photography.

Do you see yourself booking another boudoir photoshoot in the future?Absolutely, especially now that I know what exactly happens

What would you say to anyone that's thinking about booking a shoot but their nerves are keeping them from making the call? Do it anyway. Don’t be nervous. There is nothing to loose and a side of yourself you might not have ever seen.

I’ve had women ask me if I shoot older women. The obvious answer after reading this blog is yes! I thought it was important for me to put together a blog and gallery of women over 45. Check out the gallery HERE.